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The toughest job as a parent
After losing my temper with my child on a rough Saturday, I found that shame only makes the next day harder. What matters more than staying calm is how often it happens, how you make amends, and whether you can stay emotionally present when your child’s feelings get heavy. Here’s the simple practice I use when things start to tip, and one thing you can try today.
But stay human
What did you feel after my last article: skeptical, angry, afraid, ashamed? Each of those can sit between reading a solution and standing up to act on it. This piece walks through all four, then gives you a short exercise to find where your own avoided decision got stuck.
Make the good enough decision
I asked a CEO for a 57% raise, and by that afternoon he had said yes. Nothing about me had changed across dozens of failed interviews, so the difference was the man across the desk and how he made decisions. Here is what his way of deciding looks like, and how you can borrow it.
The price is the grind
For five months I wrote into a void, chasing growth numbers and waiting for an algorithm wizard who never showed up. The silence only lifted when I accepted that I was the wizard, and that nobody finds your garden until you spend time in other people's. Before I step away for a while, I'm leaving you a short pen-and-paper exercise for the days when your own silence starts to look like rejection.
Mac Miller's music helped my emotional maturing
"It was a front though, a front that portrayed a laid-back, easy-going semi-professional basketball player who was good at smiling. I thought it was a weakness, as I believed, though boys don't cry. If I could have one last dinner with my father, I'd play him Circles — and I'd also tell him that I love him."
I Don’t Need You To Be Honest With Me
There are known unknowns and unknown unknowns, the sentence that turned everything upside down in my first weeks as a program manager for 150 people. Years later, coaching instead of managing programs, I noticed the same split hiding inside every "I don't know" a client says out loud. Some are simply true, and the rest are something closer to a favor people do for themselves, one I've learned not to take at face value.
Being A Father And Founder In The Same Season
I quit smoking many times, but the habit kept returning whenever life became emotionally overwhelming. Becoming a father finally made me confront what those five-minute escapes were costing me. This is how I replaced the cigarette between work and family life with a healthier way to exhale.
Carl Rogers Taught Me To Listen With Love
"Yes, a romantic relationship and a marriage are the toughest and longest work you will never receive a penny for. Nevertheless, it's your best interest to give it everything you have. What I have learned about person-centeredness certainly helps, but without her, our marriage remains one-armed."
Who Is Protecting Who(m)?
Feeling drained by someone does not always mean they have taken something from you. The exhaustion may come from carrying unspoken expectations, keeping score, or resisting who they are. When you loosen that grip, you can choose compassion, distance, or connection without abandoning yourself.
Your Ego Cannot Be Paid in Full
Friendship becomes painful when generosity carries an unspoken expectation of repayment. Instead of letting bitterness grow, we can voice what we need or accept the relationship for what it can genuinely offer.
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